How Pain Can Help You Achieve The Impossible

July 20, 2012
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We’ve all heard the phrase, “No pain – no gain.” Consciously, you might agree with the idea; it seems obvious that succeeding is often hard, unpleasant work. Subconsciously, however, humans are terrified of all pain: physical; emotional; psychological. Tony Robbins said it best: most of what we do revolves around avoiding pain and seeking pleasure. [...]

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How Long Should You Wait Before Calling Her?

July 18, 2012
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So you met a great girl, had a great conversation and now have her number. How long should you wait before calling: 2 days, 3 days, a week? Move too quickly and you look desperate; wait too long and she might forget who you are. The perfect time to call is after she wants to [...]

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How To Strengthen Your Self-Esteem Every Day

July 12, 2012
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Most people have an “If I” attitude to self-esteem. “If I get that raise, I’ll finally be happy with myself.” “If I had a better car, I’d be the man.” They think that becoming richer or more accomplished changes things. This, of course, is crazy. Self-esteem is all about you – your self – and [...]

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Tired of Feeling Hurt, Angry, Alone? Face Your Ego

July 6, 2012
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“Ego” is a buzzword we hear all the time, especially when talking about men. Still, few people understand what the term means and how it affects their lives. Believe it or not, most of your negative emotions – fear, loneliness, anger, etc – come from the ego. It’s the source of all mental resistance and [...]

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Guest Post: Dating Advice And Skepticism

July 2, 2012
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Every day, junk information is thrown at us from every direction: TV; newspapers; gossip from acquaintances; the internet (the master source of all useless trivia). Some of this information is about women and attracts the attention of guys looking for helpful dating advice. The challenge is finding the signal over all the noise. With so [...]

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How To Be The Man In Your Relationship

June 28, 2012
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A few weeks ago, a reader said he’d love to find out more about being the man in a relationship. I think this is a great topic, because too many guys take on the woman’s role when dating. Instead of being the strong half of a couple, they let their girlfriends make every big decision; [...]

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6 Ways To Get Respect (As A Man)

June 25, 2012
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Hard to get, easy to lose and impossible to recover: respect is one of the most important things in a man’s life. When you have it, girls compete for the right to spend time with you – on your terms. There’s never any nagging, lying or mind-games because women treat the few men worthy of [...]

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Why Pick-Up Lines Don’t Work And Never Will

June 20, 2012
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What’s the hardest part of approaching, attracting and seducing a woman? “The first kiss” and “Getting her number” are common answers. But haven’t you ever seen a beautiful girl and thought: “I wish I knew what to say to her”? Believe it or not, that’s how most guys feel every day: starting a conversation is [...]

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Ever Wondered If You’re Good Enough?

June 1, 2012
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To men, “Does my ass look fat in this?” is the most ridiculous girl-question ever. We don’t see why it matters and laugh at how insecure women are about looks. But haven’t you ever wondered if you’re good enough? Us men freak out if we can’t perform in bed. We put women on pedestals and [...]

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The #1 Secret Of Overnight Success

May 28, 2012
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From star athletes like Jeremy Lin to dot-com millionaires like Mark Zuckerberg, we love seeing people become rich and famous in the blink of an eye. The idea that someone like you – someone regular – can succeed overnight gives hope, inspiration and comfort. We watch these guys (or gals) and think: “If they can [...]

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