When it comes to girls, looks are everything. Society teaches us that truly beautiful women are rare and valuable. Since most guys don’t think of themselves as equally valuable, gorgeous girls intimidate them.
Crazy, right?
A few days ago, I met a girl. She’s taller than me; absolutely gorgeous; dances professionally and has the body for it. But I just got off the phone with her, and guess what?
Our conversation was kinda boring; I doubt we’ll meet again.
The truth is, attractive girls like her really aren’t that special. I’d take a fun girl with average looks over a boring model any day of the week – and so should you.
Still intimidated by beautiful women? Read this and see why you shouldn’t be.
Why Beautiful Women Intimidate Men
You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that society objectifies women for their looks. We can talk about equal rights all day long, but the truth is simple: a woman’s physical appearance is her social currency; the source of her value.
A really hot girl has a lot of value, much like a rich and powerful man. Guys want to sleep with her; both sexes want to be around her. By leveraging this interest, a beautiful 18-30 year old woman can get just about anything.
I’ve seen guys buy lunches, rings, necklaces, 3,000$ bags, cars and apartments for girls – just because they looked pretty.
On some level, you understand this. So when you see a hot girl, it’s easy to think: “damn, she can have anything and anyone she wants. I don’t have anything to offer to someone like that; my value is lower.”
This, in a nutshell, is why hot girls can be so scary.
Why You Shouldn’t Care
As a kid, I’d often give in to peer pressure and do dumb things. My mom would always say: “If everyone else jumped off a bridge tomorrow, would you do that too?”
That’s how I feel about guys being intimidated by beautiful women. These girls are only scary because society values them highly. Everyone treats them well, so you become convinced that they are, in fact, different and special.
But they’re not.
How deeply valuable is a girl’s beauty, really? It won’t cook and clean; it can’t hold a conversation; it doesn’t make her a good person. If you were on a deserted island together, far from human civilization, a woman’s beauty would be useless.
On top of that, it’s easy for hot chick to be spoilt. People inherently like her a lot, so she doesn’t need to develop a great personality or life skills. She might have high social value, but very low personal value - i.e. considered valuable by society at large but with little to offer you.
Doesn’t sound scary or even desirable anymore, right? So don’t buy into the hype and don’t be a lemming; refuse to put beauty on a pedestal just because everyone else does.
What You Have To Offer A Beautiful Woman
Like I said at the beginning, lots of guys freeze up when they see a girl they really like. They think: “Look at her. She’s so gorgeous. What do I have to offer her? Why would she ever go for a guy like me?”
Actually, you have a lot to offer.
Many of the girls I meet aren’t just pretty – they’re better dressed than me. A lot of the time, their purses cost more than my whole outfit (5$ t-shirts for the win!). And yet they still find me attractive. Why?
Because I’m interesting, confident and unintimidated by beauty. I’m a man. That’s my value – and it can be your value, too.
At the end of the day, what you own and how you look is irrelevant – just like a girl’s looks are ultimately irrelevant. What really matters is how you can make each other feel.
So keep reading this blog: build your masculine energy, work on your social skills and treat every woman as an equal, not a pretty face. Then you’ll always have a lot to offer.
In Closing
When guys are scared of pretty girls, everyone loses. Women lose because they’re objectified for their looks and treated unfairly; men lose the opportunity to be around some really amazing chicks.
Don’t be a sucker; be a man and judge people for their actions, not their looks. This doesn’t just apply to women – this applies to everyone. In the end, the only thing that matters is how we can make each other feel.
