23 Turn-Offs That Scare Women Away (Guest Post)

May 18, 2012
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I usually write about meeting women, going on dates and getting those dates to end in bed. And sometimes, that’s enough – but what happens when you want to turn sex into a relationship? I have a friend who can’t keep a girl for longer than 2-3 months despite “scoring” regularly. He can’t understand why [...]

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The 4 Things That Count In A Man’s Life

May 15, 2012
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A few years ago, I was lonely and decided to get good with women. I started talking to them on sidewalks and in malls, practiced hard and eventually became a dating coach. Today, the quest to understand girls is still a big part of my life. Some people ask me why don’t I just write [...]

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Still Intimidated By Beautiful Women?

May 3, 2012
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When it comes to girls, looks are everything. Society teaches us that truly beautiful women are rare and valuable. Since most guys don’t think of themselves as equally valuable, gorgeous girls intimidate them. Crazy, right? A few days ago, I met a girl. She’s taller than me; absolutely gorgeous; dances professionally and has the body [...]

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Looking For Hope?

April 26, 2012
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Hope is the belief that something you want can and will happen. Hope gives you the confidence to keep going when nobody believes in you. It gives you the strength to carry on when you’re about to give up. When shit really hits the fan, it’s the only thing that holds you together. Without it, life [...]

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The Myth Of The Invulnerable Man

April 24, 2012
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Over a few decades, men have become increasingly feminized. Things like waxed chests and metrosexuality are now part of the male identity. But ask most guys who they admire and you’ll realize we respect masculinity very much. In fact, most male icons – from Bruce Lee to James Bond – are so manly they represent [...]

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5 Dumb Things Men Think Women Want

April 16, 2012
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As a teen, I really wanted a girlfriend. Figuring out women out was the first logical step. I looked to Hollywood films, men’s mags and the people around me for information on what women want. Most of what I learned was bullshit. Most people – and society at large – have a warped idea of [...]

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Are You Letting Other People Shape Your Destiny?

April 10, 2012
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Other people start influencing us as soon as we’re born. Parents tell us what’s good and bad; friends become reference points that guide us; teachers pass ideas onto us. Many of the things we learn are useful, e.g. “running with scissors is bad”. Other lessons are harmful. Being called ugly or dumb in high school [...]

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Guest Post: A Bartender Shares Secret Nightlife Knowledge

April 3, 2012
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I love standing behind the bar. It gives me a completely different perspective on the place that I used to call home. I started going to the bar and approaching people as soon as I turned 18. I wanted more options for myself and I wanted to improve my social skills – the nightclub seemed [...]

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Heartbreak Is A Choice. Here’s How Not To Make It.

March 30, 2012
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The day my ex and I broke up, I didn’t feel much. A month later, I was doing my morning stretches. Suddenly, my body went limp and I felt something warm and wet rolling down my face: tears. For the next 30 minutes I lay motionless, crying silently. It wasn’t the manliest moment of my [...]

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Start Amazing Conversations With Women Anywhere, Anytime

March 26, 2012
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Imagine a beautiful girl just walked past you. She’s cute; she’s holding your favorite book; she’s glowing with sexiness. Before long, you’re picturing what she’d look like bent over your kitchen table. …But then you let her walk by without doing anything. What else can you do? You don’t know how to start a conversation [...]

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